Marriage: Inter-faith marriages –
Muslim woman, non-Muslim man
Q353 :A marriage was formed between a Muslim woman
and a Hindu man. Neither of them changed faith. At present they have
children. What faith should the children follow? How is that women to
be buried after her death? If this marriage is not valid, what will
happen to her children? Can they be considered legitimate at
all?
A353 : That marriage is simply not valid from the
Islamic point of view. The woman may be a Muslim but, by accepting to
be married to a Hindu, she has violated the teachings of Islam on
marriage. She accepted to be wed to a man who is not lawful for her.
Therefore, the marriage is null and void. In other words, her
relationship with him is illegal. As for the faith of her children,
perhaps it is more pertinent to ask about her faith. The fact that she
has gone ahead with this arrangement and has been maintaining it for
several years, having benete the mother of more than one child,
suggests that she does not have much regard to Islamic teachings.
Otherwise, she would have taken the necessary steps to determine
whether her marriage would be legal or not. Having failed to do so, and
continued with this arrangement is a strong indication that she may not
really care about what Islam says. Hence the question whether she is
truly a Muslim or not. I do not suggest that by marrying this man she
is to be cosidered a disbeliever. I am only saying that she does not
seem to care whether her marriage is valid or not. If a Muslim woman
goes through the process of marriage with a non-Muslim, no matter what
religion he follows, she remains a Muslim although her marriage is
invalid. Her relationship with her man is one of adultery, not
marriage. Her children are illegitimate in the sense that they are born
outside wedlock. However, they bear no blame for the actions of their
parents. They should be considered Muslims if their mother is truly a
Muslim. If it is doubtful that she will be helping them grow as
Muslims, someone else from her family should meet that end. When she
dies, she may be buried in a graveyard of Muslims, because her action
does not constitute apostacy.
Our Dialogue ( Source : Arab News – Jeddah )