Q441 :My wife and I intend to do the pilgrimage, but
she is too weak and cannot walk for a long distance. We are, Allah
willing, going to do the pilgrimage in the tamattu’ method. So we want
to offer the Umrah now and travel to Mina direct for pilgrimage. Is
this permissible?
A441 : The tamattu’ method is the one preferred by
the Prophet for all Muslims. It involves doing the Umrah and pilgrimage
separately, starting with Umrah which includes ihraam, tawaf, sa’ie and
shortening one’s hair or shaving one’s head. One releases oneself from
ihraam immediately afterwards and then re-enters ihraam on eighth of
Thul Hajjah for pilgrimage. As such, the rituals of each major duty are
done separately. Therefore, you have to do a sa’ie for Umrah and
another for pilgrimage. This, however, should not cause your wife any
great trouble with the facilities available in the Haram. If she cannot
do the sa’ie herself, especially after the tawaf of Ifadah, when the
place is over-crowded, she could use a wheelchair. You should either
push the wheelchair yourself in the passage especially provided for the
purpose or ask someone to push it for you. You could also use the
second floor which is less crowded. You could do the tawaf on the
second floor. The distance there is much longer, but you can again use
a wheelchair. The time needed for this tawaf will not be much longer
than if you do it at the ground level, because of the over-crowding
there. She can start by walking whatever distance she can manage
herself and use a wheelchair when she is tired. In her condition, she
obviously cannot do the stoning herself. It is better if she asks you
to do it on her behalf. When you have finished stoning at each jamrah
for yourself, you do it again on behalf of your wife. This way you
reduce the physical effort which may be troublesome to your wife. I
pray that both of you will be able to do the pilgrimage in netfort. May
I just remind you that doing the pilgrimage in the tamattu’ method
requires each of you to sacrifice a sheep in gratitude to Allah. You
may partake of the meat of your sacrifice.
Our Dialogue ( Source : Arab News – Jeddah )