Q455 :When the legislation of polygamy was approved,
it sought to curtail that practice in Arabia, but Muslims these days
have nete to abuse this facility, sticking to its letter and ignoring
the spirit. Could you please explain what the Islamic authorities
should do to guide people back to the proper observance of this
facility?
A455 : Many of us tend to think always of what the
government or the authorities should do in order to rectify a faulty
practice. In a case like this, where a man marries more than one wife,
the onus is on that person to abide by Islamic legislation and
implement what Allah requires of him in [deciding to have more than one
wife and] his treatment of his wives. No human authority, local or
national, can ensure that the proper Islamic standards are maintained
in every home and by every person. Islam relies in its implementation
mainly on the individual and his conscience. It tries to cultivate a
keen sense of duty, motivated by a real feeling that Allah watches us
all the time, and that He is aware of our actions and the intentions
behind them.
Our Dialogue ( Source : Arab News – Jeddah )